Originally Posted by help_me_2001
It's not an iPhone, so I don't know if those apps exist for her phone or not. She never makes phone calls, its literally all done with texting to her friend and never one call was made to the guy throughout everything. But I agree, I do still feel like she is going through her friend to talk to him and set stuff up, I can't help but not to think that. Why won't she just leave me, I don't get it.
She has the security of marriage from you and the fun of sex with other men.
Start seperating finances, removing her names from credit cards/bank accounts, put valuable items in a safe. Do these under the radar without tipping her off.
Sorry to say but just from what you wrote your marriage has been off for a while and she has no interest in fixing it. Take the matters into your hand and start protecting yourself.