| | Re: Need advice for how to approach wife
We've honestly had sex this past week on 2 different nights. First time in a really long time that's happened to be honest. And in all honestly, it was really good sex, hard to explain but it felt like it was way more than just having sex, which is what really gave me hope. I think I walked away from the bar feeling good because of what he he had said at the end, but the more I thought about it, the more I wondered if he would just say that because he really doesn't want anything more than what they have. That or my wife has made him think the only way they keep going is if it stays a secret. If he really was an honest guy and my wife is just the absolute worst liar in the world, I still think he would have just been honest from the start and admitted to texting and her being at his house. He still never admitted to the truth about how she came over by herself, he never gave into that even though he did finally say after my wife's girlfriend left she stayed. But if that was the truth my wife never would have lied and said she went by herself as that sounds so much worse, so I know he was just too afraid to admit it in case I was just bluffing or something. I've talked to my wife in the past hour through texting and she is upset and now isn't sure she is even coming home. Of course now I just wonder if that means she is going to talk to him tonight and feels the need to apologize. The last text I got said I'm not answering any of your texts for a while just so you know. It's all F'ed up and I don't think I can take it anymore. No matter how crazy I am, and everything I've done to want to steal her phone, look up her texting, confront her boyfriend, there is no way she can put the blame on me and that's what keeps happening.