wickedlittletown

No, I have said that I trust him when it comes to being loyal. I just am afraid of the closeness they have. I see our relationship laking in areas and I am afraid he is using this friendship to fill in the blanks... I have said this to him to... I said I was afraid that if our relationship doesn't get better and he only gets closer with her that he might eventually discover he doesn't want to be with me anymore... It makes me angry at him because he should see how much this hurts me but is so resistant to admit he is doing anything wrong!!! AH! The whole friendship idea was his... I asked him, if you were me, and felt the way I feel, what would you do? He said I have made him feel this way too. I also have a best friend from high school, who is a male, obviously gay (he will not openly discuss it, he has issues with accepting his sexuality), and has never been interested in me that way, and visa versa. We have been very close since the beginning of my husband and my relationship. We hug, kiss on the cheek etc. My husband openly said he felt jealous of our friendship and I told him there was nothing sexual in what was going on. He and I had always been that way. Well he says how he dealt with it was he became (I'll call him Jack) Jack's friend too over time. He said it was hard for him at first but he just MADE it happen. I saw the similarities and decided I would give him the benefit of the doubt and at least try it his way...