Originally Posted by gabster555
When we do text talk…I can summaries my wife’s feelings to this
“stop playing shrink with me. You either move forwards or you don’t….make up your mind”
“then quit going around in circles”
“I’m trying then YOU do this whole sulking thing”
“your mood swings are what’s interfering”
“ And u still dwelling over past???? F***king MOVE FORWARDS”
“You’re the perfect king that’s all u want to say…I’m sooooo f***ing horrible”
I will move forwards to repair this marriage….just didn’t what any rug-sweeping
Your wife has no remorse, demands rug sweeping, is very selfish, and sounds like a complete bit**. Putting the affair aside for a minute, have you ever asked yourself if it makes sense for this person to be the person that you spend the rest of your life with? I do not ask this question lightly as I have never been divorced and been married for over 20 plus years. I find that when people get cheated on that they often spend so much time trying to repair the marraige and make it work, that they never look at their own lives and their own needs and ask is this best for my happiness.
She is responsible for her happiness and you are responsible for yours (good thing too since she does not seem to care about your happiness). Remember that it is not just all about her and that your happiness matters too. The next move is yours. Make it count.