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DEEDUMS · 04-17-2008, 11:34 AM

Your very right about it being easy to hide the demons when you are not around someone as much. I think that is what I am scared of. He is not Abusive in any kind of way anymore because I put a stop to that. I made sure that he would never put his hands on me again. Its been three years. It never got to the point where it was bruises or anything but I had to stop it before it got to that point. Abuse is not good in any way whether its a lot or a little. I do know that. He is getting better with the kids, even when we have disagreements now he still does for them. I know I sound crazy and confused, but I feel like I want him but I dont want the drama. Our baby is due in June, maybe after the birth I wont feel that I need him or am I lying to myself?

04-17-2008, 11:34 AM	#3 (permalink)
DEEDUMS Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 5	Re: State Of Confusion Your very right about it being easy to hide the demons when you are not around someone as much. I think that is what I am scared of. He is not Abusive in any kind of way anymore because I put a stop to that. I made sure that he would never put his hands on me again. Its been three years. It never got to the point where it was bruises or anything but I had to stop it before it got to that point. Abuse is not good in any way whether its a lot or a little. I do know that. He is getting better with the kids, even when we have disagreements now he still does for them. I know I sound crazy and confused, but I feel like I want him but I dont want the drama. Our baby is due in June, maybe after the birth I wont feel that I need him or am I lying to myself?