Originally Posted by DawnD
I didn't say everyone who wanted their own biological children need therapy, but I do think those who will cause hurt and pain to other people, including their infertile spouse all for that biological child probably need therapy.
Sorry that is how I took it originally written. I was a living basketcase when I couldn't conceive...I could have treated my husband nicer during that time. So I guess I am guilty too.
Unless you have walked the infertility road, I wouldn't judge. I did, and I even had one kid...so in it's way, I guess I was really an ungrateful witch!
I went to a Infertility Retreat, friends with the leader.... where I sat among numerous couples who couldn't conceive, I felt like I didn't belong there...and maybe I didn't..... I felt their pain, the sadness in thier eyes....I cried with them. I planted a tree with them, for the children we all hoped to have someday. Very very difficult road to walk. Whether it is the husband or the wife.
When that is a DESIRE of the HEART.... it rarely goes away... and sometimes we aren't thinking too clearly....like this poster.
Most difficult in my life. Even the Bible calls the barren womb one of the 3 things that are never satisfied, there is a reason it is compared to the grave.
There are 3 things that are never satisfied . |
Four that never say "Enough"
The Grave, the barren womb,
Land which is never satisfied with water, '
and Fire, which never says "enough".
At least I felt GOD understood me during that time , even though when going through it I was mad as hell at Him!