Originally Posted by FallenMan
I think there is no clear consensus on what to do. Obviously as it seems like people here are 50-50 on to tell or not to tell. I'm not going to tell her while she is pregnant or immediately after the baby comes. I've decided that for sure. I may tell her some point down the line but I'm not sure of that right now.
Well I can't believe I worked this hard on a lost cause but Fallen - in a continued effort to not let you delude yourself and call you on stupid BS I actually went through this whole thread and counted the damn votes.
I'm sorry my friend but it's a land slide. Of the people who have posted clear opinions about whether you should tell your wife or not 20 have stated that they believe you should, only 10 have stated that they believe you should not. That's 2:1 or 67% of totals votes cast. If this were a presidential election you'd be saying you've been given a mandate the vote is so overwhelming.
So don't lie to us and tell us that there is no clear consensus - there is and it's to tell your wife. If you want to lie to yourself and choose to hear only the people telling you what you want to hear then go ahead; but don't try to take us with you.