GAsoccerman

Wiccked, sorrry I offended, but when it comes to foursomes, there is not always interaction betweent he ladies or the men, so I was just trying to clarify the "relationship" of all involved.

Well as Drac said, you need to sit down, BUt I would go a step further and have all three of you sit down, set ground rules, tell them how you feel and what makes you uncomfortable, what is acceptable, what is not.

Sometimes when people have an "open" relationship there are issues due to failure to set Rules and boundries.

Is it ok for them to sleep together when you are not around? Do you have to be involved? Can you and jane sleep together without ur hubby around? all needs to be settled.

I only wish you the best and hope all three of you can settle this.

But more communication is needed and again I apologize if I offended you earlier. I ahve some good friends in "open marriages" some work well some did not, the ones that do, fully trust each other and communicate very well and have ground rules. Ones that failed....well usually the "third" person got two close with one of the couple, lead to jealousy and mistrust.