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demora · 04-18-2008, 09:32 AM

My husband recently accused me of this very thing and his whole idea in his head was "she's not getting it from me, she's got to be getting it from somewhere else".

It hurt. I chose not to address it. It was untrue and I didn't think it deserved a comment or a rebuttle. I have never given him any reason to mistrust me nor have the thought of cheating on him ever crossed my mind. I love him! We do have some issues we are working on, but I still have never thought of being with anyone else.

Some people really lash out when they are hurt and caught off guard, as it sounds like she was. I really didn't want hold my husband or be near him at that moment. He hurt me and the distrust did infuriate me.....but I chose not to respond at all.

04-18-2008, 09:32 AM	#10 (permalink)
demora Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 69	Re: If You Were Accused of Infidelity My husband recently accused me of this very thing and his whole idea in his head was "she's not getting it from me, she's got to be getting it from somewhere else". It hurt. I chose not to address it. It was untrue and I didn't think it deserved a comment or a rebuttle. I have never given him any reason to mistrust me nor have the thought of cheating on him ever crossed my mind. I love him! We do have some issues we are working on, but I still have never thought of being with anyone else. Some people really lash out when they are hurt and caught off guard, as it sounds like she was. I really didn't want hold my husband or be near him at that moment. He hurt me and the distrust did infuriate me.....but I chose not to respond at all.