| | Re: what is he waiting for?
I have heard many people get a court order (via divorce) to maintain their health insurance. It's not that rare.
Perhaps meeting with an attorney and knowing your rights would be a good idea, if you haven't already? Usually, the first consultation is free.
Ask him, to help you move into a cheaper place (financially). He will figure, it will help him (less$$$) but it really will help you in the long run....if a divorce occurs.
You mentioned a salon....could that possible be a side job, that you could do in your own home?