Re: new here with court questions
I dont think the ex's attny has a leg to stand on. Direct and purposeful disregard for the courts orders is contempt.
I'd ask that your attorney request a financial affidavit for the past 2 to 3 years showing his credit card abuse and forgery.
This kind of all needs to happen before you can decide what to do with the house, as it all certainly applies.
His delay, is not a denial.