Originally Posted by karma*girl
I need to remember that! It never occurred to me that he could think of my cringe-points as not a big deal.
He has said things like I don't even notice, care, etc...but I never could believe him.
FIRST: Carol is a 58 year old woman not a 21 year old swimsuit model. If my brain worked that way, it'd be easy for me to see a gajillion "cringe points". But that's not what my eyes see. My eyes see the sexiest woman in the world... or at least the sexiest one I've ever met. At least my visual sexuality is a lot more complicated than some measurements could ever hope to capture. Love changes a lot.
SECOND: Let's talk your husband. Really, seriously, and objectively, is he Brad Pitt? Does he have a chiselled physique and washboard abs and expensive silk suits to drape it all in? I'm guessing probably not which means your eyes are willing to be pretty subjective when you look at him. Why shouldn't he be the same?