photomom

My husband and I have been married for 11 years, we dated for 2 and a half years before we got married. the past three years have been very dry in the sex department.. My husband has back problems that have gotten worse over the years, he's 35 and has already had one major back surgery. he sleeps on the couch because it is less painful on his back. my issue here is, we havent had sex in almost 3 months and it's really getting to me. I get angry and hurt, I feel ugly and unattractive, and just so lonely... I have told him how I feel more then once, but he still wont even try to have sex with me. he's more then happy to allow me to preform oral sex on him, but he will not return the favor. I realize that I dont look the same as I did when I was 18 but after 3 kids and a lifetime of stress, who would?? I'm not over weight, but I've always had body image issues and this is not helping! I'm 30 years old. I'm not ready for my sex life to be over!!!!! Our marriage has made it through hell and back, and I want to push through this, I just cant see the light at the end of the tunnel... I have no one to talk to about all this, it's just not something I want to share this with friends and family. any advice would be helpful. thanks.