Originally Posted by *Dean*
Maybe he thinks you are not going to change your behavior.
He knows you. Your not going to do what we are suggesting.
By doing what we are suggesting, you will pull away from him and get stronger. He most likely will notice.
So.....he wants me to move further away from him which will make me stronger (without him) THEN he will want to be close to me? The thing is, if I get stronger in myself, without him, I'm afraid I won't want to be close to him. I want him and I to be stronger! I do think I get your point though. We ALL need to be as strong as possible in ourselves to have the best relationship possible, but am I wrong for wanting that "soul mate" feeling? Thanks