Originally Posted by Browncoat
I suspect his resentment is very deeply embedded into him, and now while he is respectful he might be emotionally divorced from you.
Again just a theory, but he may just be going on with his life.
He may feel that working things out with you may be: pointless, too painful, and/or not worth the effort. It could be many many other things too.
Unfortunately w/o more to go on it's hard to say.
Your words are exactly what I fear. Do you think its harder for a man than a woman, to see where that behavior ultimately ends up? You drift further and further apart until one of you is so vulnerable you fall. I think thats what I'm trying to figure out. Does he just not care if that happens and doesn't believe it can happen? Do you think men are kind of blinded to what distance does to a woman? Thanks for you input.