Cooper

Cooper here,
I have always put my wife and kids before myself, my wife has always put her wants first. This is just the way things are and I accepted the bigger role without to much complaint. The last year things have gotten worse. Even her family has become upset with her because she has become so detached from the kids and me. Her father shocked me at Christmas by thanking me for sticking it out. I have never once complained to them about our marriage but they can see what is happening. All the signs are there. Trips to the store that should take an hour seem to take four or five. No account for what she does most days( she works around 10 hours weekly) The cell phone never leaves her person, she even takes it into the bathroom with her. Her friends call her the wild woman. She has become openly flirty with other men, I think she is so use to being that way she forgets to turn it off when I'm there. She went out of town for the day last week for a horse show. I checked the milage on her car before she left, what should have been a 220 mile trip showed up as 35 miles on her car. I asked if she drove herself and she said yes. When confronted with a lie she changed her story to she met one of her friends part way and knew I would be upset that she left our car at a gas station for the day so told me a lie. Her friend was already there but she claimed to have driven back and picked up my wife, then brought her back home in the evening and returned to the show. Like 300 miles of driving! The list goes on, is it any life when all you do is try and figure out if you are being lied to! What a mess!