chris78

Demora, I'm a little appalled, to say the least, at the man who has been telling you that you are self-absorbed. You do not seem that way to me and I urge you to disregard his accusations. Of course this may be why men are from Mars and women are from Venus....we just don't see it that way. When you answered him you seemed like you wanted to be submissive and non confrontational so you agreed and begged for more info. You don't need to. You are not self-absorbed. You seem to be an independent woman who wants, not needs, to have someone to share interests and life with. I also have a husband who fits the description you describe. It is abuse, plain and simple. I can't go anywhere without being accused of something that I never had any intention of doing. You do not need to feel that you are wrong because you expect respect in your marriage....it's common sense too. If you have a problem at all, it is your ability to let him do things to you that you are bored with...sick of...including in the bedroom, at work, and with your hobbies. Don't let him make you give up who you are. I hope this helps some. Good Luck to you.