GAsoccerman

I agree with the above posters.

What is this list of issues?? I mean I can come up with a list for my wife as well, and I am positive she can come up with a list for me, no one is perfect, Marriage is compromise and willing to work together.

Do you work as well?

Financial crisis is tough and many men go through depression witht he loss of a job, failure as a man is very tough pill to swallow. He may have left to not cry in front of the boys, he is supposed to be the "rock" of the family, the burden has become to tough for him.

He definately needs counseling, you should go together.

Tell your son not to resent him, it takes a stronger man to see peoples faults and to accept them. It takes a Great man to help those over come bad times.

anyone can be tough or angry, takes alot of character to be humble and accepting and to offer help to those in need when they are down.

Work with your husbands family to get your husband out of this RUT and have your boys be supportive, not resentful.

I would like to see this list.