Originally Posted by endofstory
If he does'nt send that paper nothing happens. We will just be like now..Still legally married..
There is a reason why I'm not doing anything about this separation papers, maybe it's foolish of me. The main reason is that in a few years I can take a good look at myself in the mirror and at my children's eyes and know that I DID'NT CHEAT, I TRIED TO SALVAGE OUR MARRIAGE AND I DID'NT END OUR MARRIAGE. He cant do and say the same thing.
I know that God has seen my heart and all my pain. In time I will have peace within myself knowing that even though I've struggled, I never cheated on him and would never abandoned him or my children. Can he have inner peace knowing what he did? I dont think so
I was there w/ you in the beginning of my separation. Now I just want it over. My older kids know what he's doing and it has been pointed out that he will not file (it's not in his nature to file because he is thinking he is a victim in this mess). Mine abandoned me and our kids (he denies that) and I know that he has hurt his relationship w/ the kids. His problem. But I get wanting the kids to know that you weren't the one to cause this change/loss in their life.