trexy66

I have been with my partner for a total of 5 yrs we have been married for 1 and a half of those yrs.I have 4 children he has none.I have a 10 yr old daughter still living at home.For the most part my husband and daughter get along well,she call's him dad and has for about 4 and a half yrs,her bio dad is not allowed near her as there is a no contact order.Last week my husband and I had a big fight because out of anger he called my daughter a brat and told me she was childish we did not talk for 4 day's.when he did decide to talk to me he told me that my daughter would have to grow up and quit being so childish he did not know if he could continue staying in the marriage if my daughter continued her way's.He mentioned 2 things that really bothers him 1 he does not like me tucking her in bed at night he thinks that she is too old for that and 2 when I leave the house she will wave to me until she can no longer see me in sight,a few times my husband has dragged her away from the window and has left her very upset.There is alot of resentment and I am getting very stressed.I don't think my daughter and I should change our rituals to make our mariage harmonious expeccially when it is so petty.I am starting to wonder if I should even stay in the marriage or walk away.I can't even talk to him about it because he sticks to what he feels.Any suggestions or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated