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Old 04-19-2008, 06:49 PM   #8 (permalink)
losttrust
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Default Re: questions about infidelity

I were to tell you that in fact you can go right ahead and trust her, then I would be lying to you. When one of the fundamentals of marriage is compromised, the whole thing becomes compromised, She says she loves you, but how much does she? if she loves you this much and then she should come clean and stop making excuses and that "Freedom" that she wants to keep so much has to be given up (to a certain extent, we all need some space and freedom) Her marriage, kids and all that is attached to these 2 come first. Myself I have a man group, what is that? well I bunch of us gather once a month and we go to a set restaurant and we go have some beer together, watch what ever sport there is on TV and we talk about guy stuff, we do that once a month and it is MY TIME alone no wife, so this way I have some freedom. My wife has showed up to one of those just to see what it was all about and left, this way she has piece of mind.

But as far as breaking up your marrige for all of this, maybe you guys need to seek councelling, this may alleviate a lot of issues, like trust. If you wish to talk about what ever Cooper just add me to your private buddy and I will give you my personal e-mail so that you can talk to somebody about what ever, it is always nice to have someone to talk to that has been there. Let me know.

In the mean time hang in there
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