my husband and i have been together 7 years and married 2. We have 3 beautiful children. we're young but we wanted to get married and have more children. the problem is all my husband wants to do is be with his friends. he hangs out almost all day. or he takes everybody everywere they need to go because they dont have cars. to me it seems like thats not his problem nor his responsibility. neither of us are able to find work right now so he says he's bored and leaves me home all day with the kids or all night. he still goes out til like 4 or 5 in the morning. i tryed to talk to him severals times about changing his priorities around and makin me one of the most important but he dnt seem to care but wen i tell him he dont care he says he does but never changes and says he's gonna do what he wants. i dont no what to do, i love him with alll my heart and dont wana lose him but he dont wanna grow up. and i feel like i had no choice so he shouldnt either. i just dont know what to do. i dont wanna lose my husband but i cant handle him leaving everytime his friends call. and they call alll day long!! what should i do .