Originally Posted by Gizmo04
If i were able to do the things i used to do i would. Im the obsessively clean one. However, i am not lazy just for being lazy. I am lazy because in the past 2 months ive suffered a concussion, several bulging discs and a heart condition. Walking up 6 stairs puts me out of breath and im 29 yrs old an in excellent shape, however these medical issues are making me useless. Ive said in a previous post that im ok with her going out with friends, but she refuses to hang out with her normal friends and now its all about work friends and thats why i get suspicious.
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So you're putting your comfort ahead of the relationship, and she's putting her career / work friends ahead of it.
Honestly, I'd get mad at you, too. If you told me you wanted me to hang with "regular friends" that you knew, and got angry with me for developing new friendships, I would assume you either didn't trust me or you were being demanding. Neither one would sit well with me, and I would definitely not feel emotionally supported. That could be a breaking point for me if I was also being responsible for most of the family income, too, and coming home to a house that hasn't been cared for.
Is there any reason you can't get a sitter for a few late-night hours and meet her there so you can get to know her new friends, the ones she feels are important to her career? Or why she can't invite a couple of them over on a weekend or something?