| | Re: I want to work it out, but I think he cheated
There are some standard verification techniques that you can use.
You can hire a private investigator to follow him and to get precise information about this employee, i.e., is she married and who she's married to, criminal background, other details like that.
You can get a voice activated recorder and put it in his vehicle--to listen in and see if he's talking to her on the phone, or to hear what they say to each other if he drives her around.
When he says he never wants to see you again--it sounds like you are unclear on whether he said this because he has a nasty temper and is an extremely poor communicator, or whether he really means it.
I agree, that type of immature behavior shouldn't be tolerated.
So what is stopping you from moving back to where he is and putting the kibosh on his "friendship" with a woman with TWO babies?