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stav · 04-20-2008, 08:45 AM

you poor thng... you need help.. do you not have close family you can talk to?

Counselling will help you sort out your feelings, you can't go on like this.

As for your husband, I don't know why you separated but his behaviour does not sound like that of a reasonable man.

I understand what you are saying about not preventing the kids from seeing their daddy, but you must make it more structured. Set times to come see them. Arrange to have a friend or relative in the home with you when he is due to arrive, to give you support, and to prevent situations like the one you describe.

Have him take them out for a treat rather than stay in the house. Above all, start standing up for yourself.

04-20-2008, 08:45 AM	#3 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: How did I get here? you poor thng... you need help.. do you not have close family you can talk to? Counselling will help you sort out your feelings, you can't go on like this. As for your husband, I don't know why you separated but his behaviour does not sound like that of a reasonable man. I understand what you are saying about not preventing the kids from seeing their daddy, but you must make it more structured. Set times to come see them. Arrange to have a friend or relative in the home with you when he is due to arrive, to give you support, and to prevent situations like the one you describe. Have him take them out for a treat rather than stay in the house. Above all, start standing up for yourself.