Originally Posted by Jellybeans
What's the poin tof being married if you don't live together, he hosts women at his house, he hides messages from you, he lies about his relationship with other women, and he threatens divorce everytime you bring up a concern?
Get an annullment. This isn't a marriage. It's a joke.
I understand that everyone is entitled to their opinion, but whether my husband and I reconcile or divorce, to call my marriage a joke is quite hurtful. I waited almost 30 years to get married, and I married intending on staying married forever. All of my friends and family were there and it was an extremely happy day for me. I truly don't believe my husband married me intending any of this to happen, and I certainly didn't intend for it to happen. No one intends to find themselves in the circumstances of infidelity or possible infidelity, but it doesn't make their marriage a joke, and neither do the other circumstances. My marriage was a lot more than those things, or I wouldn't care if it was over.