Originally Posted by norajane
I just don't see it that way. He IS a third party to them. Otherwise, they would be talking with him about it.
It's none of his business if so-and-so is having sexual problems, another is having financial problems, and another is having vaginal itching issues. I do not share my friends' and family's personal issues - they confide in ME.
I never confide anything to a married person if I don`t want their spouse to know about it.
However, I`m a hard core private person and really confide nothing to anyone other than my wife anyway.