Originally Posted by Hope1964
I went out and bought a nice corset/garter/stocking set for myself and then it took me a couple weeks to build up the courage to wear it for my hubby. Fear that he wouldn't be as 'impressed' with it as I hoped, maybe? Or fear that he will compare me to the women in Penthouse and find me lacking? I am also hesitant sometimes to say what I want, such as that we should use a toy or watch a film. Maybe because I am afraid he'll think I'm depraved? I dunno. All I know is I am more likely to suggest or do something racy when I have a glass or 3 of wine in me
I know everyone says don't worry about it, he'll love it, do it, don't be afraid, but in the moment my own inhibitions speak louder than logic.
Thanks for your reply, I often thought some wine would relax her enough to play but once, I later discovered it was the wrong time of the month and other times the wine has made her too sleepy. I begin to get paranoid that she simply bought the vibe for herself but then wonder why she told me about it.