Re: I wrote this to my husband, as a guy what do you think
It seems to me, by reading between the lines and reading your descriptions of who said and did what, that neither of you are experiencing the relationship as emotionally safe. I doubt that whatever communication difficulties you two have is at the heart of the issue. I think getting some professional help (sooner rather than later) would be a good way to start to build some emotional safety, trust and repair in to the relationship.
I wish you well, as I know these are not painful times for both of you.
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