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rider · 05-04-2012, 08:36 AM

Personal Ratio in our Marriage is at least 10:1 (I go down on her ten times for every one she goes down on me). Used to frustrate me, but I like it.

Some things that are a turn off:

Smell: Lots of natural rinses, oils, lubes etc that can help with it. Wifey has more odor right before "happy time"

Hair: Too much hair CAN be a turnoff (but some guys prefer it), I like no hair at all, wifey was a competitive swimmer and thinks it's gross anyways.

Lack of Feedback: Girls if you feel at all comfortable, give your man some moans when he starts doing it right.

Girls who Expect an O: This is bad, my wifey compares recieving head to the most initmate massage ever. If she gets off then great, but it's only maybe 5% of the time.

Taste: Maybe less common, but some women have a slight metallic taste to them, strawberry lube fixes it.

On a weird personal note though, my wife was abused as a kid and has trouble with physical touch and gets anxiety. I sometimes put a blindfold on her and tell her to enjoy and not worry about feedback at all. I think she enjoys this the most of all, because then neither of us has ANY expectations. I happy to enjoy the giving all the time, and she enjoys the receiving.

05-04-2012, 08:36 AM	#25 (permalink)
rider Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 106	Re: Question for the guys about oral Personal Ratio in our Marriage is at least 10:1 (I go down on her ten times for every one she goes down on me). Used to frustrate me, but I like it. Some things that are a turn off: Smell: Lots of natural rinses, oils, lubes etc that can help with it. Wifey has more odor right before "happy time" Hair: Too much hair CAN be a turnoff (but some guys prefer it), I like no hair at all, wifey was a competitive swimmer and thinks it's gross anyways. Lack of Feedback: Girls if you feel at all comfortable, give your man some moans when he starts doing it right. Girls who Expect an O: This is bad, my wifey compares recieving head to the most initmate massage ever. If she gets off then great, but it's only maybe 5% of the time. Taste: Maybe less common, but some women have a slight metallic taste to them, strawberry lube fixes it. On a weird personal note though, my wife was abused as a kid and has trouble with physical touch and gets anxiety. I sometimes put a blindfold on her and tell her to enjoy and not worry about feedback at all. I think she enjoys this the most of all, because then neither of us has ANY expectations. I happy to enjoy the giving all the time, and she enjoys the receiving.