Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Should I go or should I stay, please help!

bandit0000 · 04-20-2008, 11:05 PM

Hi,
I have a big dilemma, one I know that I can only make a decision about, but wondered if I could get some opinions please?
Briefly, found out my partner of 14 yrs cheated on me in January (he has done it before also), I have tried to make a go of things, but I have met someone else in the mean time. He is so lovely, really kind, caring, romantic, fun & yes very sexy too.
He is offering me all the things I have been trying to get my partner of 14yrs to do ie marriage & children.

They both know about each other & I obviously have to make a decision quite soon.
My partner of 14yrs wants me to stay & work things out & promises he will not cheat again. With him I would have a comfortable life, no money worries etc.

The man I met is so different from my partner ie he wants to do couple things, take me out etc which I am not used to at all. However money would not be in such free supply with him.
Don't get me wrong money is not the biggy for me, but part of the picture so wanted to fill you in.

The easiest thing I think would be to stay with my current partner, but I am afraid that a leopard may never change its spots & I miss out on this lovely man. Do I take the leap & leave?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thankyou.

04-20-2008, 11:05 PM	#1 (permalink)
bandit0000 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 11	Should I go or should I stay, please help! Hi, I have a big dilemma, one I know that I can only make a decision about, but wondered if I could get some opinions please? Briefly, found out my partner of 14 yrs cheated on me in January (he has done it before also), I have tried to make a go of things, but I have met someone else in the mean time. He is so lovely, really kind, caring, romantic, fun & yes very sexy too. He is offering me all the things I have been trying to get my partner of 14yrs to do ie marriage & children. They both know about each other & I obviously have to make a decision quite soon. My partner of 14yrs wants me to stay & work things out & promises he will not cheat again. With him I would have a comfortable life, no money worries etc. The man I met is so different from my partner ie he wants to do couple things, take me out etc which I am not used to at all. However money would not be in such free supply with him. Don't get me wrong money is not the biggy for me, but part of the picture so wanted to fill you in. The easiest thing I think would be to stay with my current partner, but I am afraid that a leopard may never change its spots & I miss out on this lovely man. Do I take the leap & leave? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thankyou.