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it will help us not fight as much as she can just go to her own bed and I can go to mine
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That won't stop you two from fighting, it will just make it easier to avoid discussion and confrontation.
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We fight a lot and I end up sleeping on the couch downstairs
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our relationship is strained enough
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Why do you fight so much? Is anything ever resolved from these fights? Does anything ever change? Why are YOU sleeping on the couch in your own home? If she's 'scared' to sleep downstairs alone, then maybe she should stop fighting so much.
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I want to be in a relationship, not have a roommate.
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That is what you're going to have.
After 3.5yrs, you two still fight frequently. WHY? Are there enough POSITIVES in this relationship to work on it in couples counseling, or are you two just drifting along in a so-so/cr*ppy relationship because it's the path of least resistance?
