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First step, I'd get him out of the bedroom. That is torture to have him there!!!
Second step, look for a job. The middle kids should be starting school soon and partially eliminate daycare. Some school even have afterschool care on site for a cheap price. The youngest will probably need a daycare. Or....daycare in the home with you as a provider. The friends of mine that are in home providers target school teachers kids. It works out great for both parties.
In the meantime, while he's out of your room....he can figure things out while you are busy getting on with your life.