Talk About Marriage - View Single Post

carmaenforcer · 04-21-2008, 06:49 PM

Hi hazzel22, my wife seems to be going through the same thing as you and dealt with it as poorly as it seems you are. Hopefully your husband is nicer and more patient that I am. Otherwise you will loose him, or worse, he'll get smart and see that you are too much trouble and there are other girls out there that don't find him as repulsive. They are out there, don't give him a reason to start looking, trust me...

You need to understand how lucky you are for having a man that put up with your garbage in the first place. I mean he is probably repulsed by you as well and with better reason, given the dramatic weight gain and the crappy attitude.
I have no advice for you, just good luck with yourself.

mollyL

I loved what you said, one of the first times I heard a woman telling another woman to be nice to her husband and to think about how she is making him feel, wow. You give me hope, your husband is a lucky guy.

04-21-2008, 06:49 PM	#11 (permalink)
carmaenforcer Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 151	Re: Repulsed Hi hazzel22, my wife seems to be going through the same thing as you and dealt with it as poorly as it seems you are. Hopefully your husband is nicer and more patient that I am. Otherwise you will loose him, or worse, he'll get smart and see that you are too much trouble and there are other girls out there that don't find him as repulsive. They are out there, don't give him a reason to start looking, trust me... You need to understand how lucky you are for having a man that put up with your garbage in the first place. I mean he is probably repulsed by you as well and with better reason, given the dramatic weight gain and the crappy attitude. I have no advice for you, just good luck with yourself. mollyL I loved what you said, one of the first times I heard a woman telling another woman to be nice to her husband and to think about how she is making him feel, wow. You give me hope, your husband is a lucky guy.