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Originally Posted by Wellsie  I can't stand watching him treat his daughter this way, I don't know WHAT I would do if I was the mama bear and we actually had a child. |
If you, as an adult are appalled by his behavior, imagine what this little girl is going through. She is four. Is her mother really so unstable that this is a better situation for the daughter? Does she have anyone else in her life who treats her with love and compassion and forgiveness? It's natural that your protective impulses are involved, here.
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Originally Posted by Wellsie I wish every single day he would just walk out on me. I don't know how to make him leave. He has to be the one, because we bought a house together in November (in my name) and he could never afford it. I can. We have no family close by he can stay with. This is awful. |
This is NOT GOOD. If you want him to leave, then you should be able to ask him to leave. If you really want to make it easier, look for an apartment for him that he can afford and when you ask him to leave, then you can suggest it.
I'm sorry, but I am really worried for his daughter. Please see a counselor. I'm not in your situation and I don't know how he is with her the rest of the time, but I can bet you that she is going to be negatively impacted by this man's treatment of her. It isn't your responsibility to stay with him for the sake of the child, but if I were you, I'd talk to a professional.
