Originally Posted by AFEH
I want to add that I truly admire your self awareness and honesty. But surely there’s enough crazy in a marriage without consciously adding more like the one you described. Best to stay way above that sort of very dysfunctional and immature behaviour.
thank you. and i totally agree - we should all try to keep 'crazy' out of the way. however, if you know 'crazy', you know sometimes 'crazy' comes around uninvited. and it comes in all sorts of forms, degrees, and is certainly not choosey about race, sex or orientation.
and i would never be this honest in person - i am not that evolved. however i feel safe enough here to admit my faults (and my strengths) and hope that maybe something i say might help someone else in some way.