Just wondering if any of you did the above . . .
I was soooooooooooooo angry at the time but I'm glad now that I didn't disclose.
Primarily, I'm glad I didn't because the "friend" I'd have gone to first, turned out to be the kind of guy who'd tell everyone what you'd told him, especially if there were any salacious details!
I confided in him about something else and he didn't exactly keep it to himself!