I agree with both bandit, angelpixie and lifescript.
There is no rush. You are an amazing woman with such a great combination of sensitivity, fun, honesty, empathy, love, caring, intelligence, beauty... I could go on. A lucky man who find his way into your life will thinks he's hit the jackpot, and he's be right.
As I move forward in my life, I would consider myself very fortunate to meet someone like you. I'm sure many of the guys here would agree.
It need great to share your journey through the pain in getting to a better place. It is an amazing feeling, isn't it? I have no worries about you... you're landing on your feet and will be stronger than ever.
If I were closer I would definitely ask you out.