JustMe

I think she's playing games with you and trying to "save face" by telling the neighbors you all are working it out. Of course you still love her! Love isn't something that you can choose to feel or not feel. That's not to say that sometimes it doesn't feel as strong and it sometimes takes effort to re-kindle the strong feelings though. I think you're right to leave her alone. I'm sorry you're hurting and she's putting you through this. She probably will try to come back when this other guy decides he doesn't want her, or she by some miracle comes to her senses, but either way it doe not mean you have to be available to her. I'm not saying for you to start seeing someone else, just that you don't have to leave your heart open to her anymore. It'll take time and healing, but you'll be stronger and better for it. Not that that helps much right now, but at least it's something to look forward to!
Keep your chin up, I'm still rooting for you!