Why should I #2?
Well, in another month or so , I will finally be finished with my STBex, and will be able to move on with my life. I have been seeing another lady and really think that she might be the answer to my prayers. We WERE going to wait until my divorce was final before having sex, but I decided that since there is no possibility of reconciliation, and that we are legally separated, and that my STB-ex knows and understands this, to begin the physical part of our new relationship. For those of you that have followed my story, you know that I have done everything possible for my STB-ex, and way more than most. I have come to the conclusion that I should not be held captive to a dead marriage. She cheated, she has the mental issues, so why do I have to respect a marriage that she threw into the garbage? I did the best I could for her, now it's my time to live.