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swedish · 04-22-2008, 11:06 AM

I wouldn't even think about giving him another chance unless he's ready to share all of the past information with you and that you have some sense that he is finally being totally open and honest about what happened. If you sense that he has gotten to that point, you should also feel that you understand why he strayed and decide for yourself based on what he says whether he can stay faithful if you stay together. If he has a child with her, I'm guessing he will still be in contact and at this point, I think it's up to you what your heart can take going forward. He needs to be 110% invested on living as an open book and regaining your trust over time.

04-22-2008, 11:06 AM	#3 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 594	Re: work things out or move on?? I wouldn't even think about giving him another chance unless he's ready to share all of the past information with you and that you have some sense that he is finally being totally open and honest about what happened. If you sense that he has gotten to that point, you should also feel that you understand why he strayed and decide for yourself based on what he says whether he can stay faithful if you stay together. If he has a child with her, I'm guessing he will still be in contact and at this point, I think it's up to you what your heart can take going forward. He needs to be 110% invested on living as an open book and regaining your trust over time.