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Sara8 · 05-07-2012, 02:44 PM

YOu caught this before it grew from an EA to a PA.

IMO, it would likely have become sexual.

The texts and emails sound similar to my husband's texts and emails.

Lots of complaining about perspective spouses, missing you, can't wait to talk to you.

He never said he lover her though.

The fights too sound all to familiar. My husband and I rarely fought bitterly, but in the months of the affair, he was starting bitter below the belt type of arguments for no reason.

You should be angry. You should be worried. He is rug sweeping.

When I was first alerted to my husbands affair by anonymous letters, he said it was nothing, than more letters came and more and more and more......It was definitely something and a lot more serious than he initially admitted.

Secret bank accounts, credit cards a burn phone, lots of texting and late night emailing.

In fact, he was emailing her as a lay beside him in bed.

It's so humiliating. I feel like an idiot.

05-07-2012, 02:44 PM	#3 (permalink)
Sara8 Banned Join Date: May 2012 Location: Near Chicago, USA Posts: 1,923	Re: Am I Overreacting? YOu caught this before it grew from an EA to a PA. IMO, it would likely have become sexual. The texts and emails sound similar to my husband's texts and emails. Lots of complaining about perspective spouses, missing you, can't wait to talk to you. He never said he lover her though. The fights too sound all to familiar. My husband and I rarely fought bitterly, but in the months of the affair, he was starting bitter below the belt type of arguments for no reason. You should be angry. You should be worried. He is rug sweeping. When I was first alerted to my husbands affair by anonymous letters, he said it was nothing, than more letters came and more and more and more......It was definitely something and a lot more serious than he initially admitted. Secret bank accounts, credit cards a burn phone, lots of texting and late night emailing. In fact, he was emailing her as a lay beside him in bed. It's so humiliating. I feel like an idiot.