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Old 05-07-2012, 02:47 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Illbehisfoolagain View Post
I am not married or even dating, so if it is inappropriate for me to be posting this here, please forgive me, just let me know and I won't come back.

I am struggling here and just need to know, if you could imagine, at some point before your marriage, your beloved fiancee told you she had briefly been a escort/prostitute, would you have still married her? What if it was before your engagement, or after your wedding? Thank you for your honest answers.
Welcome to TAM.If she told me before engagement I would view it as being honest because she really values me and respects my right in making fully informed decisions,especially life changing ones.If she told me after we were married I would view it as deceit for gain,totally self-serving.jmo
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