joeschmo

my wife and I have full access to eachothers emails, phones etc. im not saying you shouldnt take interest and be oblivious my argument was the fake profiles and keylogging for the reasons i stated before.

I never said dont snoop and/or investigate my argument was specifically directed to those actions (fake profiles and keylogging) because... if you make a profile on a cheating site...you did just that! if you are install a virus to find out what your spouse is doing it is a vialation of privacy as well as trust. if you do not trust your spouse allready then you should probably be talking now or seeing a counselor to resolve these issues.

yes people lie, but that says alot about the foundation of a relationship and the person you chose to live the rest of your life with and maybe yourself.

ok "the guy" i guess the arguement is back on