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Old 05-08-2012, 08:52 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: Differences in thriftyness

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Originally Posted by thrway214 View Post
Thanks for your responses, guys. Mavash, any particular mental tricks that help you? I react quite instinctively, and have struggled to bring that under control.
If you won't seek counseling then work towards stopping reacting. Hit the pause button and THINK before you respond. You can control this if you want it bad enough. My issues with money go way back to my childhood as well. Once I processed that my issues with money just evaporated. I still have to hit the pause button though....sometimes. Old habits die hard. KWIM?
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