Originally Posted by Leahcar1985
Yes, he told me she was his "best friend" at work. But after I got upset about the situation and we talked about it, he said he didn't mean to say "best friend".
This is why right after they talked about keeping their relationship work appropriate, (well she didn't really say anything except I'm sorry and was really sad) I was leery that anything would change. How can you be "best friends” for 3 months and then stop all friend contact at work even? They obviously have a good relationship at work still, if she thinks she can contact him on Facebook again.
If a male co-worker was inappropriate with me and my husband found out and wanted me to end all contact with him except for work related things, deleting him as a Facebook friend would be the first thing I would do out of respect for my husband.
Again, I'm sorry that I haven't kept track of all you've said before. Does he give you free access to his facebook page? You know that you can do a full download that shows all messages they've exchanged via facebook, right?