I am sorry for the pain ur going thru, it's impossible to get them to change unless they want to.
I am sad to tell you, ur husband isn't the first man to go crazy over some stripper, I have lost 2 friends who did the same thing!!! I'm talking LOST~AS IN NEVER TO THIS DAY HAVE EVER SEEN THEM...and their poor families have no idea where they are.
Good luck w/ the divorce~ find the 180 plan, it's for you and will help.
Mouse
