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believer · 04-23-2008, 12:57 AM

whoa - I thought I had it bad but your story is one I don't envy. ALL (you gave up alot - your business, the financial aspect or supporting her & providing for her 7 kids (ouch), you moved to be with her, etc) the sacrafices you made & for what?
you mention how you met & all that you have in common but how long did you date? sounds like you moved pretty fast in the relationship - mainly due to all her "problems" that you jumped in to rescue her.
I think if it hadn't been for her "problems" you might have seen what kind of a woman she was before you got in sooo deep. It is admirable what you did & tried to do. But you have been giving too much of yourself without anything in return. You aren't asking for alot - just love & appreciation (which doesn't cost anything). She should have been grateful for you coming into her life but she wasn't & took you for granted.
I think you made the right decision as hard as it might be. It is time you start making choices that will ultimately make you happy & fulfilled & doesn't sound like that relationship was providing that whatsoever.
Keep your head high & don't look back - I am sure there is someone out there that will love you & appreciate you for who you are.

04-23-2008, 12:57 AM	#5 (permalink)
believer Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 70	Re: Women Please! Was I used or loved? whoa - I thought I had it bad but your story is one I don't envy. ALL (you gave up alot - your business, the financial aspect or supporting her & providing for her 7 kids (ouch), you moved to be with her, etc) the sacrafices you made & for what? you mention how you met & all that you have in common but how long did you date? sounds like you moved pretty fast in the relationship - mainly due to all her "problems" that you jumped in to rescue her. I think if it hadn't been for her "problems" you might have seen what kind of a woman she was before you got in sooo deep. It is admirable what you did & tried to do. But you have been giving too much of yourself without anything in return. You aren't asking for alot - just love & appreciation (which doesn't cost anything). She should have been grateful for you coming into her life but she wasn't & took you for granted. I think you made the right decision as hard as it might be. It is time you start making choices that will ultimately make you happy & fulfilled & doesn't sound like that relationship was providing that whatsoever. Keep your head high & don't look back - I am sure there is someone out there that will love you & appreciate you for who you are.