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highwood · 05-08-2012, 02:29 PM

That is my worst fear..that our son will continue to despise his dad and look at me like I am a victim and am putting up with this.

I do wish that I had not said anything however alot of people said he has a right to know....

I think we are good with keeping the drama away from him...if we argue, etc. it is always when son is at work. Unlike your parents who pulled you into it..I don't want to do that..I guess myself and H just have to keep a united front. Hopefully with time this will pass and maybe he will be able to let it go....

Compared to two weeks ago he is a little better toward his dad..for the first week he didn't even respond when H asked him something now at least he responds..so I am thinking that some of the anger has dissipated a little.

05-08-2012, 02:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
highwood Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 954	Re: Is it okay to let your adult children know what is going on? That is my worst fear..that our son will continue to despise his dad and look at me like I am a victim and am putting up with this. I do wish that I had not said anything however alot of people said he has a right to know.... I think we are good with keeping the drama away from him...if we argue, etc. it is always when son is at work. Unlike your parents who pulled you into it..I don't want to do that..I guess myself and H just have to keep a united front. Hopefully with time this will pass and maybe he will be able to let it go.... Compared to two weeks ago he is a little better toward his dad..for the first week he didn't even respond when H asked him something now at least he responds..so I am thinking that some of the anger has dissipated a little.