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Originally Posted by carmaenforcer
Yeah it really sounds like you treat your husband with respect. Where you respecting his wishes when you left the house and took your daughter 1200 miles away from her father or when you made him go 9 months without sex, because YOU were repulsed by his gaining 40 lbs, oh wait that was you huh.
Like I said, you should know how lucky you are that you have a man that has put up with you so far. Keep ignoring his needs though, they say you never truly appreciate something till it's gone.
You might not care to listen to my words because I do tend to be a bit harsh but another poster said it best when she said;
"Have a little sympathy for him, OK? Can you imagine how you are making HIM feel?"
You do know how to be sympathetic towards another human being, right? Or is it that you just don't care how you are making him feel?
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While everyone is entitled to their opinions I really don't think you can help any at the rate you are going. From what little I have read it sounds like it could be depression, a deeper issue or the chemicals in her body still going crazy. Trying to figure out what is wrong is the key and as she said she has been going to the doctors to work on a solution.
I do agree that yes it can be and must be rough on her hubby, but relationships deal with more then just one person and while fault can be 90/10 or what ever still she is the one hoping to find a solution.
Being critical (even to the point of being blunt) is one thing as long as it is constructive.
draconis